
JAVA DEVELOPER
EMAIL:
bpanwar@1gen.io
PHONE:
7023535828
ADDRESS:
Baraut
DATE OF BIRTH:
1999-12-28
A BIT ABOUT ME
I am an engineer who finds joy in the balance of technical challenges and the simple pleasures of life. Passionate about meditation, I savor the art of staying happy, and as a self-proclaimed foodie, I indulge in the delightful flavors that life has to offer.
EDUCATION & COURSES
Institution: GAUTAM BUDDHA UNIVERSITY
Degree: Master of Computer Applications
Specialization: Computer Application
SKILLS
MY STORIES
Kindness found in consoling a friend 😇 Recently, I found myself consoling a friend who, despite four years of UPSC preparation, missed the mark this time . Tears flowed, and the lamentation of missed trips and moments due to the preparation echoed through the phone. Amidst this , I realized something profound about kindness. You see, kindness isn't always about grand gestures or dramatic rescues. It's in those moments of shared pain and laughter, where you console a friend over failed exams and missed vacations. It's about understanding that life's greatest gift is knowing your path, even when the road there is littered with missed opportunities. So, here's to the kindness found in consoling a friend, sharing a laugh over life's twists, and knowing that amidst the chaos, we're all just figuring it out one missed trip at a time.
#1000storiesofkindness In the evening , while I was strolling in the park, I noticed a little girl trying to ride a bike that was way too big for her. This shiny new bike was almost twice her size, and while most kids would be afraid of falling, she was more worried about scratching her precious ride. Seeing her struggle, I decided to help out. So, I took hold of the bike and started guiding her. Her face lit up with an innocent smile, and the joy in her eyes gave me an unexpected sense of peace. It was like watching a tiny, determined warrior find her confidence. That smile gave me a surprising sense of peace and joy. Just when I thought the moment couldn't get any sweeter, she looked up at me and said, “Didi, kl bhi aana”. Now, I'm not just a park stroller anymore; I've been promoted to her unofficial biking coach. This small act of kindness turned out to be a heartwarming experience, and I'm really looking forward to seeing her again.
Yesterday, I stumbled upon my old clothes—the ones meant for my "I'll fit into them someday" self. With four months of summer left, there was no way I was squeezing into them anytime soon. Thankfully, I was blessed enough to buy new clothes when needed. So today, I decided to give these clothes to those in need. When I handed them over, their faces lit up with genuine gratitude, like I had given them a golden ticket to Willy Wonka's factory. Seeing their smiles was incredibly fulfilling. And as a bonus, my mom was thrilled to see the empty space in the closet. Even if my act of kindness wasn’t for her, it made me happy to see her so pleased with the result. Now, those clothes are off on a new adventure, bringing joy and comfort to others.
My cousin, who is in 11th standard, approached me seeking guidance on joining a coaching institute .Despite my initial suggestions to focus on her 12th boards first, as she is just a kid to me,I didn’t want her to take on the stress for two things . But she was adamant to start right away. Seeing her determination, I decided to support her and activated my inner detective mode. I didnt knew about her field so I began my quest for information. I gathered advice from teachers, friends, and everyone who seemed to be connected with the same. Piecing together bits of wisdom from everyone, I created a comprehensive plan for her. In the end, I provided her with a detailed roadmap, full of tips and steps she could follow to kickstart her journey. This experience proved that sometimes, kindness means going the extra mile and supporting someone's dreams, even when you're navigating uncharted territory.
When my friend's father passed away last month, I knew she needed support. From that day, I visited her every night for an hour or two. I spent time with her, offering a shoulder to cry on and a listening ear. I also helped her mother with cooking and other daily tasks, trying to lighten their load. When my friend couldn't bring herself to eat, I made sure she had food and encouraged her to eat. These nightly visits brought some comfort and stability to their lives. We shared quiet moments and memories of her father, helping each other through the grief. Now, she is finally ready to go back to work tomorrow.Seeing her find the strength to move forward makes me proud. This experience has shown me that true kindness is simply being there for those who need it most ❤️.
Recently, when I found out that our domestic help child is unwell, I made it a point to ask about his health regularly. I wanted to show her that I genuinely care about her family's well-being. Each time she came to work, I listened attentively to her updates and offered any support I could, whether it was adjusting tasks or simply lending an empathetic ear. She expressed gratitude for the concern and understanding, and our interactions became moments of mutual support and empathy. It reminded me that kindness isn't just about grand gestures, but also about showing genuine care for others' well-being in their times of need.
Our house help, who collects garbage, needed a gas connection but couldn't write the application herself. She asked me for help, and I gladly wrote it for her. I truly hope the officials understand my Hindi hand writing 😅and that she receives the gas connection soon, so she no longer has to cook on a mud stove. This experience reminded me that true kindness lies in understanding and acting upon the needs of others. Small acts of kindness, like helping someone with a simple task, can significantly improve their quality of life
While my aunt is in the hospital and my mother is busy helping her, my younger cousins, both under 10, were stuck with the same old meals from our house help. Today,I decided to make some paneer khurchan and packed it for their school lunch. When they came home, they joked that I’d finally stepped up my cooking game beyond khichdi .Although it didn’t turn out quite like I’d hoped, at least it was tasty. Their enthusiastic reactions and playful comments made the effort worthwhile and reminded me that even small acts of kindness can make a big impact.
Our guard uncle was struggling to set up his Google Pay account. When I was about to pick up my cousins from the school bus, I saw him fiddling with his phone. Curious, I asked him what was going on. He explained that he needed to use Google Pay but was wary of entering all his details, fearing it might be a scam and his money might disappear. He even asked me, "Gudiya, paise udd toh nahi jayenge sab?" I sat down with him, fixed his Google Pay, and assured him about the safety of online payment . This moment reminded me that true kindness often involves patience and understanding. Helping someone navigate through their fears and uncertainties can greatly enhance their confidence and trust. Let's continue to support each other with empathy and compassion, creating a community where everyone feels secure and empowered.
This morning, I was on my way home via the Eastern Peripheral Expressway, a route dotted with many temples. It seemed like my cab driver was taking this highway for the first time. Suddenly, he spotted the enormous statue of Lord Shiva and was so thrilled that he slowed down the cab, his excitement evident. Curious, I asked, "Kya hua, bhaiya? Aapko picture click karni hai kya?" With genuine hope in his eyes, he eagerly nodded. He asked me multiple times, probably thinking I'd say no because of the rain. But how could I resist his pure excitement? So, I took a moment to click his picture. His face lit up with joy, and we resumed our journey with a newfound camaraderie. It was a simple act of kindness, but it made the trip memorable for both of us. We chuckled at the little joys that make life interesting, sharing a lighthearted moment amidst the rain.
This evening, I had a terrible headache and decided to go to bed early. Just as I was drifting off to sleep, the doorbell rang. Guests had arrived unexpectedly, and they had a 5-month-old baby with them. Despite my pain, I got up to greet them. The baby was fussy and needed attention. I pushed aside my discomfort and offered to help. I spent the next couple of hours holding and soothing the baby, trying to keep him entertained and calm. His innocent eyes and occasional giggles made the effort worthwhile. Sometimes, kindness means pushing through our own discomfort to make someone else’s day a little brighter. And in doing so, we often find that the joy we bring to others can help heal our own pain, too.
It is summer, and thanks to the rain, it’s not just hot—it’s a humidity nightmare. All our neighborhood grandmas, including mine, have been grounded because the temple feels like a sauna. These ladies are basically the Beatles of devotional singing, and their kirtan sessions are their rock concerts. Seeing them miss out was just heartbreaking. My friends and I couldn’t stand to see our grandmas so disappointed. So, we came up with a genius plan: install an AC in the temple hall. Now, the temple is cool and comfortable, and our grandmas can belt out their devotional hits without melting. Seeing them happy and comfy, we realized that a little kindness and teamwork can go a long way in making sure they don’t miss out on something they love. We turned a sweatbox into a chill zone, proving that when you care for your loved ones, even the smallest gestures can mean the world ❣️.
Last week, I was terribly unwell — fever, weakness, and that helpless feeling where even getting up for a glass of water felt like a task. But even in that moment, my mother — who herself was recovering from a recent surgery — became my biggest support. She walked slowly with the help of her walker, every step clearly painful, just to check on me, bring me food, sit beside me, and comfort me like only a mother can. Despite her own discomfort, she never let me feel alone or uncared for. That selfless act, when she needed rest more than anyone else, reminded me once again of the silent strength and unconditional love only a mother holds. It wasn’t just care. It was courage. It wasn’t just kindness. It was a mother’s love in its purest form. And even while writing this, my eyes well up with tears — because this isn't just a story, it's an emotion I lived through.
Last week, I was terribly unwell — fever, weakness, and that helpless feeling where even getting up for a glass of water felt like a task. But even in that moment, my mother — who herself was recovering from a recent surgery — became my biggest support. She walked slowly with the help of her walker, every step clearly painful, just to check on me, bring me food, sit beside me, and comfort me like only a mother can. Despite her own discomfort, she never let me feel alone or uncared for. That selfless act, when she needed rest more than anyone else, reminded me once again of the silent strength and unconditional love only a mother holds. It wasn’t just care. It was courage. It wasn’t just kindness. It was a mother’s love in its purest form. And even while writing this, my eyes well up with tears — because this isn't just a story, it's an emotion I lived through
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